Did you ever consider that we, as a society, have been trained in resisting.  We require this house, that car, a special blouse. jeans that are worn, expensive shoes, a purse that costs more than school lunches for the month and the most important thing is...we need to make sure others like us.  Well, I am gonna say, keep your stuff.  I have decided I don’t want to be like you because those jeans are uncomfortable and I don’t carry a purse.  I love my apartment and my car that’s paid for.  I like tennis shoes and warm sweatshirts.  I look for the good in people, situations and if I can’t find it, I create it.  I hope you find what you are looking for, but I will tell you, when I stopped looking, it found ME.  Being me is super easy and a lot of fun!