What do you see dear?  Who do you see?  You have got it all wrong if you are looking for me.  Judgement is you yourself feeling inadequate.  So, when you share your grief, pain or anger with another you are getting it all back within seconds. That feeling of revenge, pleasure or pride you thought you were feeling is really positive energy draining from you while negative energy is gaining strength.  Just because you think it feels good doesn't mean it helps anyone.  Every judgement moves you away from others and serves to create isolation.  

So, when you look into the mirror - look for yourself and work from there.  🌀❤️