This was an amazing experience! We were in the rainforest in Belize two years ago.  It was exhilarating to be 4 inches away from a wild animal and recognize that he trusted our guide because of good communication + time = trust.  🌀  The “finding”  happened happened because I asked for what I wanted.  It didn’t happen because I hinted around or because I manipulated someone.  You see, those are indirect and unhealthy forms of communication.  The happiest people communicate their needs.  It’s actually easier to communicate needs directly than to pretend or play games which brings about frustration, anger and mistrust.  If your relationships are bad, look inward and evaluate what your style of communication is.  Happy doesn’t just happen. 💕